I’ve said before that the Narcissist under high stress pulls the corners of his lips outward, folds his lips under, and makes a smile like Stan in the old Laurel and Hardy Movies (The thin guy):
Here is another:
The only difference is there is a little glassy eye’d blankness behind the Narcissist’s smile when they make this face.
I thought of it when I saw this:
And this:
I think what I am seeing is how they roll the lips inward, which is a subconscious expression of guilt, and then they try to smile while still making that guilt mouth-expression.
Here is Rod Blagojevich making a guilt face without the smile:
Here is Clinton’s guilt face, without the smile:
The TV show Lie To Me actually had a picture of a chimpanzee who was caught trying to steal a banana from another chimp, making that exact same mouth expression.
You can see how if you try to smile, while making that face, and while under a level of stress unlike anything normal people feel, you end up looking like Schneiderman.
It is funny how much of what is going on inside the heads of these guys leaks out, even when their profession revolves around masking the degeneracy that is inherent to their psychology.
Spread r/K Theory, because we want the left to look like Stan when they smile
Lie To Me is what opened me up to the world of facial reading. The ability to read faces can give someone fighting for the Light the ability to detect those for the Dark, no matter how hard they try and blend in with everyone else.
The main caveat with it is one of the issues explored in the show, just because you see an emotion doesn’t mean you know the reason behind it.
Can’t hide that you’re a cluster B from the AC :DDD
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IT’S HABBENING:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cz9WMK240ZQ
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Repost of the interview with the Republican Human Rights Activist Patrick Little who is running for Senate in California:
https://ibb.co/cwQPGJ
June 5th on California, VOTE LITTLE – WIN BIG!
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>Who is Patrick Little?
Patrick is a United States Marine Corps Veteran who served with honor in Afghanistan. Patrick is running as a Republican and is in 2nd place behind Dianne (((Feinstein))) in the California Senate race. 2nd place is a VICTORY in the June 5th California Primary.
>What is Pat’s platform?
-Merit-based employment in all government agencies and ending affirmative action.
-Nationalize Google, Facebook, Twitter, and all other natural monopolies in the IT industry.
-Limit representation of Jews in the government.
-Outlaw lobbying of foreign governments.
-Death penalty for any politician introducing a bill for foreign aid to Israel.
-Reparations to families of the victims of Jewish terrorist attacks on the US.
-Give descendants of slaves a one time payment funded by diverting aid from the original slave traders: Israel.
-Repeal the 1965 Immigration Act and restore the policies of the National Origins Act.
VOTE LITTLE – WIN BIG
ONE LITTLE VOTE CAN CHANGE AMERICA ELECT THE VET
NO MORE MIXED LOYALTIES, VOTE LITTLE
PAT WILL BRING AMERICA BACK
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cz9WMK240ZQ
Patrick Little tells you what he thinks about the terrorist state of Israel
http://www.LittleRevolution.us -> His website. Visit now!
https://gab.ai/Patrick_little
https://twitter.com/SensoredCandid8
http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQIeOWJER3DmEAlM6RKePdA
https://www.bitchute.com/channel/little_revolution/
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Read his AMA’s here:
http://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/170948755/
http://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/170956328/
http://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/170948755/
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ZOG and mossadpedia already trying to unperson Patrick Little.
The deep state fears Patrick Little.
See here:
http://i.4cdn.org/pol/1526659445229.jpg
https://gab.ai/Patrick_little/posts/25891385
VOTE LITTLE – WIN BIG
ONE LITTLE VOTE CAN CHANGE AMERICA ELECT THE VET
NO MORE MIXED LOYALTIES, VOTE LITTLE
PAT WILL BRING AMERICA BACK
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You have to see this AC:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHzu5oOo0eg
Eliot Spitzer’s face sure stood out when his scandal came to light.
http://img.timeinc.net/time/daily/2010/1004/360_spitzer_0415.jpg
Love this stuff. So useful! You’re great at describing things, but nothing beats photo examples.
This reminds me of your book on narcissists, which I read cover to cover and which has helped me recognize the condition in several people I know.
In the book, you explain how we should react to various narcissist stimuli. I wish we also had some examples of what things to say and do in each case.
Perhaps such could be a source of articles. Bring up a way to counter a narcissist, then give an example of what it might look like in action. I’m good at avoiding feeding these people after I recognize them, but I’d like to learn how to strike back.
Jaded Jurist
A.C. describes the methods in his book. The Amygdala Hijack is primary.
The best advice I can give, is to learn how they are looking intently to see you feel lesser, unhappy, and be bothered by what they do. Recognize that, and refuse to let anything they do or say bother you. Just completely disregard everything they say and do, appear enlivened and amused by it, and act as if you are so high in status compared to them that anything they do is amusing to you, any attempt to demean or irritate you is funny to you because you think it silly they would even try to affect you.
That is 90-95% of driving them nuts, and crushing them. Just by ignoring them, you send them to their baseline state of miserable recognition of how evil and meaningless they are, which is a horror to them.
I have also found religion drives them nuts. Urge one to accept Jesus Christ, acknowledge their sins, repent from them, and ask forgiveness really pushes their buttons. You will not be able to hold a conversation, because as you raise it, it will be like throwing acid in their face – they will freak out, and yell until you stop.
This absolutely works, I do it regularly to my father’s wife when I feel like watching her head explode.
Lol. It is fun, if you have learned to hate them.
Okay, that’s a good summary. I can do the amused thing pretty comfortably.
The interactions have basically two polarities they can travel along, and understanding it can help. On one path, a panicked loser who envies your devil may care attitude looks eagerly, hoping the barb he just sent your way will hit you and ding your self esteem, so what he envies is damaged, and you end up more like him, and he can feel in control of your own perception of yourself. If it does hit you hard, you will see the mix of relief and pleasure wash over him as he revels in a weird sudden superiority.
If it doesn’t, you will see dejection and demoralization, as he is forced to look at your devil may care attitude, and rage at how you think you are better than him. That last part particularly stings, because all that keeps him afloat is that sense of self superiority he creates to try and counteract the insecurity and pain that is inherent to his nature.
They get away with that shit a lot, because most people speak relative to reality. So for example, you might not demean someone else’s singular failure in something, because you would not see it as relating to their underlying net worth. It was just one place where they bombed as they threw in with the world, and it happens as you develop your skills and abilities. Likewise, as you go around, someone else portraying your failure at something as a permanent measure of your limitation in that field will rankle, partly because it is impolite, partly because their incorrectness in portraying it as some sort of measure of your value as a person is incorrect by your metrics.
But that rankle is what they want, because it makes them feel as if they are in control, and thus a higher status, and thus better than you. And if they get it, they are on top of the world because now they feel as if they have status relative to you, and their panic and insecurity abate. If they don’t get the rankle, they actually lose any status they felt they already had, (or had deceived themselves into thinking they already had), because suddenly you are such high status you don’t even give a fuck what they say. They then rage at how you think you are better than them, and in most, you will see that right on their face.
Their main driver is a weird status obsession, which will be hard to imagine if you just want to go your own way and be left alone. When I walk in a room, I see individuals who ideally leave each other alone, and thus status is not really a thing. Plus if you understand intelligence, how do you rank it? One guy may be a genius mechanic, another a genius doctor, another a genius computer programmer, one a Special Forces Sniper, and another a excellent teacher. How do you rank each’s net worth/value/status when they all do different things? And almost everybody has something they are good at. It seems silly.
But the moment a Narcissist walks into that room, status is all he is thinking about, and he begins with a panic that he is below everyone, and he sets about trying to make somebody feel like shit so he can tell himself he is better than that person, and thus not the worthless shithead in the corner in a room full of great men. In reality, just by being like that he determines his own place in the hierarchy.
Narcissism is very much a self-inflicted curse.
Genius isn’t an IQ rank and actually the theft of the term for a rank refers to a middling category of above-average. It’s a person who advances their field greatly, no more or less. So Tesla was a genius, Edison was not. Read Genius Famine.
This is exactly how we (my family) dealt with a narcissistic PASTOR! This skill must come naturally to us, as I am only now reading up on these evil people after the fact. I am going to send your little snippet of advice on how to deal with narcissists to my oldest son. My son was the one that had to deal with the guy the most. No wonder the “pastor” was trying to drive him out. My son will be very amused when he reads this. I am VERY amused to say the least. I will probably be chuckling about it all day.
OT: I read Cracked.com now and then to get a sense of the enemy psyche. This one article of reader submissions was so pathetically rabbity I had to share:
http://www.cracked.com/pictofacts-953-25-ways-world-has-gotten-super-super-creepy/
Amygdalae fucked up.
agree and amplify works really well in this case especially if one finds his own particular failure or weakness very amusing to himself. narcissists wish that they could do this so you now switch them to envy which they will now think of every time they notice some failing in you or others.
my favorite technique for making their heads explode is word pairing. if you are extremely consistent, you can make them completely avoid you or their favorite way of attacking you. the rub is that they cannot get the attack on you out of their heads, so they automatically get the pairing. i am sure that i shortened one’s life significantly by doing this. it helps if it rolls off the tongue and is helpful to be mildly vulgar. you say it to them directed at their attack on you, boldly i.e. fuck up disciplinarian, lazy taskmaster, or single words or phrases that are paired exclusively with their attack such as parasite, poor moral character. this is most often used in direct attacking, but can be used when you pretend to be speaking about someone else.
another thing to do is to have a running commentary somewhat directed at them about failings of example people, topics which include their failing which they give to you by what they like to criticize. i call it the Dr. Phil technique. it has to be platitudes with an authoritarian edge.
it really works and can put them on the defense for a lifetime and they often stop attacking you both directly and behind the scenes. often they do not dare broach the subject ever again and let you ride roughshod over them. a client drove his narcissist wife mad doing this. he would also criticize women by working the word slut in as a modifier for other actions or words. she would say that Kim next door must be going out because she has heels on. he would say that it must be a job interview as he planted other seeds that women were lazy. she replies that they are not those kinds of heels. his response, “oh, slut heels.” he mentioned a female on CNN slutting it up. she actually broached the subject with him to stop using the word slut as it bothered her. she asked very meekly and quietly. he broke her as she was facing her own self every time he said it.
this can be so much fun that you want a narcissist around just to play with it.
One more anecdote:
There’s this certain man I see regularly, and I always felt like something was off with him. He seems to want to remind me in every conversation that I’m a mere grasshopper compared to him.
Almost a year ago, the light bulb went off, thanks to your instruction: he’s not a hunchback, he has classic narcissist posture.
Just now, I recognized that even his face looks like Schniederman’s does in these photos.
Good thing I warned my wife about him months ago.
As kids we called that the Um…. face, pursed lips, rolling, nose droops, chin juts, eyes cast down. Easier to see in children. Fear mixed with false contrition. Look closely and they almost laugh.
Pedos have a weirdly triangular face, large fish-like mouth, long but too thin nose, greedy eyes. Cannot unsee.
@Jaded Jurist (or AC): /what/ book on narcissism?
How to Deal With Narcissists was the second book, looking at the Narcissist psychology. It is free in Kindle when I do the freebies, which I will be doing soon.
some smile like this because we are in excruciating pain and try to hide it. thinking of pain could it be that the narcissist’s entire existence is a form of mental pain often made manifest physically especially when they hunch over. perhaps they are trying to punish themselves by inducing pain and its expression. i have never met a more miserable species.
In conjunction with Chris, above: Narcissists may smile when they think they’ve got one over you, but the victims of narcissists also smile, to disguise their pain. Victim’s smiles, too, have a deep nasal fold and tense, downward trajectory.
I know the victim’s appearance because I own a mirror.
Sorry about that. On the bright side you are armored in ways the normies are not.
Did you see the CDAN old hollywood posting about how he (stan) might’ve been a rapist/murderer attached to the mob in a cold case? Tendency to drag his feet always struck me, while shuffling the shoulders.
Kinky, too. The woman who was strangled with her nylons.